How Can You Ask For What You Want ?
A good place to start is by stopping asking yourself if you “deserve” it.
Do not question whether or not you deserve things in life. Simply clarify what you want and go for it.
When we don’t set boundaries it can be because we feel we don't “deserve” to set boundaries.
Can you relate? I certainly can
because I used to always put other people first.
As a result my low self-esteem was reinforced by my inability to state what I wanted.
We can’t always get what we want in life, but we definitely won’t get it if we don’t ask.
By focusing on what you want in life, instead of questioning whether you’re worthy of it you will find a way and your self-confidence will grow.